Tuesday, December 22, 2009

The Pawns


Although I never get to play very much anymore, I used to love playing chess. My brother was the best player at his high school.

I've taught a few people how to play. It is complicated at first, to learn the ways each piece moves, and then to figure out how each one strategically plays into the game. From the beginning, you have to feel out your opponent, and figure out ways to set up your pieces, using the unique ways each one moves, to set up a defense and hopefully mount a good offense.

It is important to not forget the least of the pieces, the pawns. I have said before, and will say it again. The pawns are what win the game. If you try to get too aggressive with your queen, bishops, knights, and rooks, you are going to loose. The piece that many people don't pay enough attention to are the ones that can win and loose the game if they are placed in the right spot. Given, they can only move straight, one spot on all moves except the first, and can only attack diagonally. However, when positioned correctly, these pieces can slip through a defense and put your opponents in check.

So my point in this is that as leaders, is that life is like a game of chess. It is important when leading a group to understand the talents that are available and use it in an appropriate manner. But at the same time, just because a pawn is so severely limited in it's moving abilities, never underestimate it because of it. They are what win and lose the game. Maybe you or someone you know has a small talent that many would regard as useless in life. However, when employed properly, it can open up the door to success.

Monday, November 23, 2009

A Great Leader is a Thankful Person


When people think of important leadership characteristics, thankfulness is probably not usually at the top of the list, but maybe it should.
Being thankful is a sign of contentment and also a sign that you are paying attention to what is going on in your organization or team. A thankful person notices people and appreciates what they are doing. A leader must be "other-focused". Self-consumed people are rarely thankful because they only pay attention to their own actions and other's reactions to them.

As you sit around a table this Thursday think about this concept. Would others describe you as thankful? Do you constantly show appreciation to others for how they make your life and organization better?

Be a thankful person. Be a leader.

Friday, November 13, 2009

The Bystander Effect

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KIvGIwLcIuw


In Psychology this week, my class studied the bystandar effect. In definition, this is the effect that when people are in a group, they are more likely to follow the patterns of that group than they are to take a stand and help someone else, even someone in distress.

This video is disturbing. In summary, an experiment is conducted to see how people will respond to a staged kidnapping on the streets of New York City. For 2 hours, people do nothing but just watch as the girl screams, "This is not my dad, this is not my dad!" as she is being dragged away. It is two hours of doing this experiment before two men finally decide to step in and stop him.

What we need in society is more leaders like the ones we see in this video. As we go through life, we see many things going on and expect someone else to do something about it rather than ourselves. Why not be that person who steps up?

Friday, November 6, 2009

Quote for the Day


“I prayed for twenty years but received no answer until I prayed with my legs.” -Frederick Douglass
How often do we find ourselves doing nothing and expecting something to happen? If we want to do anything in life, we have to step up ourselves and do it, not wait for someone else. No one is going to get you into college for you. No one will apply for scholarships for you. No one can decide your major or your career goals for you. Find a goal, make a plan, and follow through with the plan.

Monday, October 12, 2009

Leadership Quotes



These quotes are taken from Famous Quotes & Quotations website. I thought I'd post them up here for all of you to see, think about, and reflect upon..

'Top 10' List of Leadership Quotes:

Favorite Leadership Quotes #1
Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things.
Peter F. Drucker
Favorite Leadership Quotes #2
Don't tell people how to do things, tell them what to do and let them surprise you with their results.
George S. Patton
Favorite Leadership Quotes #3
Leadership is the art of getting someone else to do something you want done because he wants to do it.
Dwight Eisenhower
Favorite Leadership Quotes #4
A leader is a dealer in hope.
Napoleon Bonaparte
Favorite Leadership Quotes #5
I must follow the people. Am I not their leader?
Benjamin Disraeli
Favorite Leadership Quotes #6
The leadership instinct you are born with is the backbone. You develop the funny bone and the wishbone that go with it.
Elaine Agather
Favorite Leadership Quotes #7
Delegating work works, provided the one delegating works, too.
Robert Half
Favorite Leadership Quotes #8
Only one man in a thousand is a leader of men -- the other 999 follow women.
Groucho Marx
Favorite Leadership Quotes #9
The very essence of leadership is that you have to have vision. You can't blow an uncertain trumpet.
Theodore M. Hesburgh
Favorite Leadership Quotes #10
The best executive is the one who has sense enough to pick good men to do what he wants done, and self-restraint to keep from meddling with them while they do it.
Theodore Roosevelt

Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Who will lead?

I was reminded to day of this question. There are a lot of problems in society, there are a lot of problems in schools and classrooms, in our sports teams and organizations. The world is in need of men and women who will step up in lead. If you don't fill the gap, who will?

Are you willing to put yourself out there? I have been asking myself the same question the last few days. We need leaders. Will you be one?

Monday, September 28, 2009

Proverbs


There is an ancient Japanese proverb that goes something like this,

"The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. The second best time is now."

Why do we wait to start doing something? Whatever it is you want in life, do it now. I've waited to do things before, but I've learned that nothing happens until you do something about it. Don't wait to get involved in a club, to try to make new friends, or to do better in school. Do it now. If you had planted your tree earlier, you would have your tree now. However, if you don't go ahead and plant your tree, you may never have your tree. Today is as good as any other day to begin whatever it is that you want to do.

Sunday, September 20, 2009

Worry v. Joy - The Challenge of Leadership

"Worry is the greatest thief of joy." - Warren W. Wiersbe

This quote discusses an important concept that many leaders fail to consider. The best leaders are leaders that display a joy in what they are doing. These are the people who others want to be around and others want to follow. Having joy in life and displaying this joy is essential to great leadership.

Yet it is a reality that as a leader, as a leader you are going to be faced with tough situations and decisions that will potentially cause you to worry. How will you respond?

When difficult situations come up you are faced with a few possible reactions.

1. Worry, and let is affect your joy and therefor the attitude of thos around you. Realize if you do this, it will bring down your leadership and cause others to fall into the same pit. Remember others are watching you. You can justify it by saying that you are not someone who hides their feelings. While this is noble, as a leader you are called to set a standard and to be one who demonstrates courage in the face of tough challenges. By showing you are worried, you have become a catalyst for fear rather than courage.

2. Put a fake smile on your face. Many people hide their worry about a situation to others by just smiling through it. It is coping mechanism, but it does not solve the problem. You don't want to have a fake happiness or just a facade that will only deter others in the long run.

3. Let joy reign. Although we are all face with tremondously tough decisions and hurdles, there is alwasy a reason for thankfulness and joy. There is always a reason for hope and courage. We must have faith that this situation is not the end all, be all. It is just another bump and as we look back at our life, we hopefully can see how we have survived past difficult situations and have been made stronger for it. Perserverance builds character. We must believe that the situation we are in will only make ourselves, our team, and our character stronger.

When you are able to do this, others will follow and they also will not let worry, but joy reign. They will not be robbed of joy and you will know that you served as a protector of their joy.

Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Take the Initiative


How often do you find yourself in a situation where no one wants to take the initiative to get something done? This happens all the time. Often times, in class, when groups are trying to organize to give a presentation or a project, we find ourselves struggling to find someone to take the initiative to present, research, etc.

The mindset always seems to be, "Well, someone else can do it and not me." But why not you? Someone has to do it, why not take the step and do it yourself? Don't wait for others to begin before you, take the step up. As the photo says, "The leader always sets the trail for others to follow." Don't wait for someone else to set the trail for you. Do it yourself, set the trail, be bold.

Monday, September 7, 2009

Quote of Day - Issac Newton



"If I have seen further it is by standing on the shoulders of giants" - Issac Newton

I love this quote. Love it. What a brillant statement. It reminds me so much of the the David McCullough quote I share with students on the first day of school. "There is no such thing as a self-made man or self-made woman, we are all shaped by people we have never met."

Yet, this is someone who gets it. We are shaped by great leaders, thinkers, and mentors of the past. When we head their advice and cherish it, we can see further and do more than others.

We can be visionaries and we can live a life that is extraordinary.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Confidence

One thing that I have been spending a lot of time doing recently is trying to instill confidence. In addition to being the head soccer coach at my school I also serve as an assistant to the cross country team. It is interesting to see the dynamics between two teams at the same school.

The cross country has had success. They are currently ranking in the top 7 in the state for both girls and boys. The runners on the team have an idea of the work ethic it takes to be successful and they are willing to push themselves. Yet, there is still a little doubt when it comes to going against one or two teams that have beat them in the past. Before they ever step to the line, they let that team beat them.

Some of you are in that place in life. Whether it be in sports or in life, there is something that has always beat you, and when you face it, you don't even give it the fight it deserves. You've lost before you began.

My soccer team has not seen the success that cross country has and they also have this confidence wall that I am trying to break. The problem for them is they don't know what it takes to be a champion. Yet, despite that, with a new beginning and a new coaching staff, they see more light in the dark. They have an underdog mentality, that I think can do even better things than the, good to great mentality.

There is a book called "Good to Great" by Jim Collins. In general the idea that is promoted is the difficulty of going from good to great. It is difficult when you have always had moderate success to get over that mental block of being just good and beginning to be great.

I struggle myself with this. I know I am good at somethings, but I have to take more risks and be more devoted to be great. As I read Kyle's blog post, I saw a man who was willing to take the leap from a good life to a great life. To being extraordinary.

I applaud that devotion, that is what this blog is all about.

Let's continue to spread the word to our friends to be a part. If you know someone who wants to contribute, have them email me at scottcampbell82@gmail.com.

Be extraordinary.

Monday, August 31, 2009

Quote of the Day

Here at Campbell, on our e-mail server, we have a small box with a "quote of the day" in it. Sometimes they are wise proverbs, from Socrates and the like. Aometimes a witty one liner from Demetri Martin or Jay Leno. Yesterday we had a good quote on leadership.

"Management is doing things right; leadership is doing the right things." - Peter Drucker

To me, it is important to know the difference in a manager and a leader. Can one be an effective manager, yet be an inadequate leader? Does a leader have to be a manager?

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Seeking After Wisdom

As this year starts up for a lot of you. I want to give a challenge.

Seek after wisdom.

It is really easy to get caught up in the process of making grades or just getting through a year, but it takes a concerted effort to really focus our attention on becoming wise.

Wisdom does not mean learning everything you can about Calculus. Wisdom is the process of listening to what is being said and watching what is going on around you, and being willing to retain information to use it later in life.

Wisdom involves the intentional seeking of that which has lasting value on you and the world around you.

Are you seeking wisdom or just good grades?

Ask yourself this and I beg you to be wisdom seekers.

Monday, August 24, 2009

Know the way, go the way, show the way.


There is a poster on the wall at my dads office where he works (see picture), with a quote under it reading "A leader is one who knows the way, goes the way, and shows the way. This truly resonates with me because it really sums up what a leader should be.

As Yogi Berra once said, "You've got to be very careful if you don't know where you're going, because you might not get there." If you don't know what you want out of life, if you don't know what you want to do, then you probably won't accomplish anything. The first thing to being a leader is knowing what you want. Maybe it's a grade in a class. Maybe it's self-improvement. Maybe it's starting a new club at school or college. Whatever it may be, you have to know what it is you want before you can accomplish it.

Second, you have to actually set a plan into motion. Knowing what you want is great, but if you don't set out to do it, then it is nothing more than a dream. No one can make something happen for you. I, personally, enjoy car restoration. Right now I am working on a 1968 Ford Torino. I know many others into cars, and I could not count for you the people I have met who have project cars laying in the backyard or in the garage and they always say, "I'm going to fix that up one day..." or, "I'm going to make a hot rod out of that.." Some of these cars have been sitting for years. The owners know exactly what they want to do with the cars, but they can't find the time and energy to go out and get it done. Having a plan and everything you need to accomplish it is nothing if you don't actually go out and do it. The same applies to leadership.

Third, you have to show the way. After you have discovered what it is you want in life, and you have gone after it, I think we then have a responsibility to help others along that same path. Back in April, I graciously accepted an invitation to go speak to the JF Webb Leadership Retreat about college, along with several of my friends. After deciding what you want in life and going after it, be sure to help others do the same thing. There was more than likely someone who inspired you or lead you to do whatever it is you do, and I think we each have a responsibility to pass along what we have learned and experienced. Leadership is a two way street. At the same retreat, I remember Mr. Scott Campbell saying that a good leader can leave, and no one know they left. The reason is that good leaders show others how to lead, and that when they leave behind a club from school because they graduated, or however they may end up leaving, others have learned from their leadership to take over and keep going from where they left off. Because a leader has to leave something behind does not mean it should fall apart in their wake. It should continue on under new leadership, and the cycle should continue. This, to me, is what it means to show the way. It's not just about leading, it's about teaching and offering whatever you can do those that you lead.

Friday, August 21, 2009

Take a chance

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover." -Mark Twain

Could not have said it better myself. Mark Twain is obviously an inspirational figure with his collection of stellar work but the message behind this particular excerpt I find more intriguing than many quotes I stumble upon. Twain is right. If you don't venture out and shoot for the stars. Chase your dreams. Ask that special someone out when you had the chance. You'll look back and wonder what if? But you'll never know unless you take a chance. Go out on a limb. If it doesn't work out of well you'll have the memories. And the satisfaction of knowing that you tried and took that chance. I advise everyone to go out and take a chance.
Don't let fear or unassurance stop you. Follow your dreams, act on your ambitions, chase what you feel is right.

-Thomas

Saturday, August 1, 2009

First Post

Hi all,

So this is my first post. Sorry it's been so late, but I haven't really had anything to talk about that pertained to, what I perceive as, the overall "theme of my posts. But now I feel as if I do have something to add. So here goes...

This August, I will be moving to Los Angles, California to become an actor. I know, it's sounds crazy, right? This goes against nearly everything that my parents tried to instill in me during the 18 years I lived with them. They would much rather I stay in school and get a degree, but I feel as though my best chance for success is sooner rather than later. So, I have taken a leave of absence (which is a fancy way of saying I dropped out) from Elon University and have decided to pack up and chase my dreams.

Now, don't suppose that I acted rashly. This was a carefully thought out, life-changing decision. One of the best pieces of advice I received about making tough decisions was from a good friend of mine, Rasool Jahan. She told me that I needed to think until I literally couldn't think any more. That when the time came for me to defend my decision, any doubts I had would be perceived as weaknesses and that I would grow to regret my choice. So that's what I did. I spent nearly a month in solitude debating the pro's and con's until I was positive that I had made the right choice and that nothing could convince me otherwise.

I won't outline my entire debate, but I can tell you that I know that this is the right choice for me. I know that thirty years from now, I want to be able to say I wasn't afraid to follow my dreams. Whether I'm successful in this or not, this is the right thing for me to do.

So, I will be spending at least two years in LA. If after two years I don't get any work, I'll face the music and head back to school without any regrets. If at the two-year mark, my career looks promising (ie. I'm working somewhat regularly) I will extend my stay to five years. After five years, unless I miraculously become the "next big thing," I will return to school and finish my studies.

My goal with this blog is to provide an insight into the life of someone chasing his dream, no sugar coating. If I'm sleeping in my car, living off of Ramen Noodles, I'll tell you about it. So viewer discretion advised?

I'll try to post at least twice a week once I move out.

Best Regards,

Kyle

Friday, July 31, 2009

Quote of Day - Einstein

Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving” - Einstein

Leaving today. Excited to see what the next chapter brings. Moving and experiences new places and people is part of the great challenge and joy of life.

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Quote of the Day - Tony Dungy

Quote of the Day: ""It's about the journey--mine and yours--and the lives we can touch, the legacy we can leave, and the world we can change for the better." - Tony Dungy

Sunday, July 26, 2009

Quote of the Day - Peter Drucker

"The final requirement of effecitive leadership is to earn trust. Otherwise there won't be any followers - and the only definition of a leader is someone who has followers. To trust a leader, it is not necessary to like him. Nor is it necessary to agree with him. Trust is the conviction that the leader means what he says.

It is a belief in something very old fashioned, call "integrity." A leader's actions and a leader's professed beliefs must be congruent, or at least compatible. Effective leadership and again this is very old wisdom - is not based on beling clever; it is based primarily on being consistent."

Monday, July 13, 2009

L.A.S.E.R.S

I want to get your opinion on a manifesto for an album from one my favorite artist Lupe Fiasco. It has a meaning behind it obviously but it can be taken several different ways even though its straightforward. I hope that this can spark some debate. What your thoughts on the manifesto for L.A.S.E.R.S.

It says....
We Want An End To The Glamorization Of Negativity In The Media.
We Want An End To Status Symbols Dictating Our Worth As Individuals.
We Want A Meaningful And Universal Education System.
We Want Substance In The Place Of Popularity.
We Will Not Compromise Who We Are To Be Accepted By The Crowd.
We Want The Invisible Walls That Separate By Wealth, Race & Class To Be Torn Down.
We Want To Think Our Own Thoughts.
We Will Be Responsible For Our Environment.
We Want Clarity & Truth From Our Elected Officials Or They Should Move Aside.
We Want Love Not Lies.
We Want An End To All Wars. Foreign & Domestic (Violence).
We Want An End To The Processed Culture Of Exploitation, Over-Consumption & Waste.
We Want Knowledge, Understanding & Peace.
WE WILL NOT LOSE BECAUSE WE ARE NOT LOSERS, WE ARE LASERS!!!

Lasers are the opposite of losers. Lasers are shining beams of light that burn through the darkness of ignorance. Lasers shed light on injustice and inequality. Losers stand by and let things happen. Lasers act and shape their own destinies. Lasers find meaning and direction in the mysteries all around them. Lasers stand for love and compassion. Lasers stand for peace. Lasers stand for progression. Lasers are revolutionary.
Lasers Are The Future.

We’re Not Losers…We Are L.A.S.E.R.S.!!!

Love Always Shines Every-time Remember 2 Smile!

-LF

So what do you think. Makes sense? Like it? Not the music just the message. I would encourage you to give your own thoughts on the matter

Integrity

People follow those they trust. They trust people who are consistent. They follow a leader who has consistent character.

The hardest thing for a high school or college student may be consistency. It is hard to have the same attitude and more importantly be the same person in all the different areas of your life. We tend to act differently around at school than we do around our parents. We tend to act differently at church than we do at school. We sometimes act differently around different groups of friends.

If we really look at ourselves we must realize that we are being a liar to at least one of these groups. We are not being who we are at our core. They will eventually find out and someone will question it, and your cover will be blown. Your leadership will be compromised.

The second thing we must realize is that this is not healthy. Don't you want to be one person, not 4 different people juggling 4 different personalities. Your leadership will always be weak, but your life will never be fulfilled until you stop compartmentalizing and begin living a life of integrity.

Tuesday, July 7, 2009

Service

Sorry for a couple days off. So my sister came back from the Peace Corp yesterday. It was so good to see, it has been two years she has been serving in the Gambia in West Africa. It has reminded me so much of what sacrifice and service really are. To be away from your family for 2 years, to not have seen her knew niece, or to have celebrated holidays at home. She has given up the luxurious American lifestyle to be with her village and people, because of that, people listened to her and followed her, and others will continue through her whole life.

So it made me think about service and sacrifice and my own life. How I need that to be a more apparent part of what I do each day. What is holding me back.

Anne Frank said:

"How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world."

Truth. Don't wait. Start now.

Saturday, July 4, 2009

July 4th


Why do we celebrate July 4th?
In all honesty, the Declaration of Independence was legally a meaningless document. It would be like a child who wrote down on a sheet of paper that they were no longer part of the family. That would not actually make them separated.

So a bunch of guys gathered together in Pennsylvania sign a document, so what. The document was not recognized by the British and without action it would always be meaningless. So where does it get its meaning?

I think leadership.

Commitment: 56 men gathered together and rather than just complaining they committed to do something about the injustice they were dealing with. They committed themselves to a cause and and put themselves out there as leaders of this cause.

Risk-Taking: They were risking their lives when they signed that document. It was treasonous and if the war had failed they would all have been killed.

Vision: In this document they were laying out a vision for a new government. By claiming that the actions of the king (and Parliament - king was easier to pick on, but it was really parliament) were wrong, they were committing to never support a government that had those characteristics. Therefore, they were laying out a new vision for leadership and governance in the nation from here on out.
These are just three of the characteristics of great leaders: commitment, risk-taking, and vision. We celebrate this day because it is a celebration that we as a country had leaders who were willing to lead and sacrifice to make this a land of freedom and justice.
So shoot off some minor explosives today, grill some animal flesh, and bust out some Lee Greenwood.
Happy 4th.

Friday, July 3, 2009

Quote of the Day - Benjamin Franklin

"We must hang together, gentlemen...else, we shall most assuredly hang separately." - Benjamin Franklin
Sticking with a Fourth of July theme. I've always loved this quote because Ben Franklin said it right after he signed the Decleration of Independence on July 4, 1776. He understood that what the men were doing was treasonous.

At the same time, he understood that what the men were doing was right. He was willing to risk his life for something he believed in, but knew it would take teamwork and commitment to do it. All great causes require sacrafice, teamwork, and commitment. Nothing extraordinary has ever been achieved without it.



Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Quote of the Day - Abraham Lincoln

"Whatever you are, be a good one." - Abraham Lincoln

Short and sweet, unlike Abraham Lincoln.

Why we lead?

So I was just thinking about this question.

Why do we lead?

Why does anyone lead another person?

Seems like such an essential question for understanding leadership.

Here are the best answers I have come up with so far.



1. We have something we believe in, and we know it is the best for others, so we encourage others to follow us, doing what is best in their interest.
2. We feel like we have to, or no one else will do it. We are forced into it.
3. We want people to follow us because we want control.
4. We prepare ourselves to lead and fight for the opportunity and when it arises, we jump on it.
5. We have a gift and people naturally follow what we are doing.
6. We know something people don't know or can do something that others can't do, and they follow us to learn it.

So these are ones I have come up with, but which ones are noble. Which ones are worthwhile reasons for leading. Which ones can be used the wrong way? Or can all of them be good or bad depending on the circumstances? Are there any other reasons why people lead?

Are you leading? Why?

I would love to hear your responses.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Quote of the Day - Dwight D. Eisenhower

You don't lead by hitting people over the head - that's assault, not leadership.

- Dwight Eisenhower

Monday, June 29, 2009

Where's Waldo?

Well chances are he's dead. And if he is around somewhere I would hate to meet him. I'm allergic to zombies. But on a serious note Ralph Waldo Emerson was a transcendentalist who tried to transcend the norm of thinking. To believe in a higher sense of being. And he left us with many quotes. One of the ones that I found particularly interesting was this one....

"Whoso would be a man must be a nonconformist." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Short and sweet right. But let me ask you do you follow the basic concept behind this quote? Do you march to the beat of your own drum despite what others do? And if you do explain. And if you don't explain as well. Tell me what you think its the logic behind the quote and do you think that many people follow this? Feel free to discuss

Quote of the Day - Booker T. Washington

Success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles which have been overcome while trying to succeed.

- Booker T. Washington

Washington was much criticized and maligned for the postions he took in life concerning African-Americans fight for equality, but in this quote I think he catches something very important. He sets a different standard for what is success.

Now many people might disagree with this quote, and sometimes I probably agree with them. I would like to hear your thoughts. Feel free to comment.

Taking a Walk

If you are feel you are leading but there is no one behind you, you are just taking a walk.

Who is following you? More important, where are you leading them?

Think about this today.

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Quote of the Day - Oliver Wendell Holmes

Quote of the Day: "Where we stand is not as important as the direction in which we are moving." - Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.

In which direction is your life heading?

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Quote of Day - Mark Twain

"The best way to cheer yourself up is to try to cheer somebody else up." Mark Twain

A simple one, but a good one.

Summer

Think about the summer... Think about all the time you have... I can think back to the countless hours of useless ESPN shows I watched during my summers in high school, it was usually some rerun of the World's Strongest Man. For some reason Magnus Van Magneson (or whatever his name was) was far more important than building relationships and possibly even learning something. I think I totaled some where near 0 books in all four of my high school summers combined. Now I worked, and I had summer missions trip for a week (so that was my excuse), but I had no desire to really better myself during the summer.

I had the mentality of learning is for the school year and summer is for forgetting. If I could go back now I would change that. I know very few high school students want to spend their whole summer reading and I don't think you should spend your whole summer reading either. Get outside, hang out with friends, go somewhere on vaction, do a summer camp, go on a missions trip, do something cool, but also try to set a goal to read at least one book. It could be on a topic in school you like, or leadership, or about faith. Second thing, try to invest in one relationship. Not just chasing after that cute boy or girl, but try to spend time with a friend or family member. Ask about their life, listen to them, see if you can help them with anything. Imagine what would happen at the end of 4 years of high school. You have four deep relationships, you have read 4 transformative books, and you were still able to forget most of the crap that was taught to you during the year. Sweet.

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Ralph's Wisdom

So this dead old guy named Ralph Waldo Emerson tried to shake up things in the early-to-mid 1800's. He believed that living a life where your goal was to get the most stuff, was not a life worth living. So rejected that way of living and sought after a simplier life, finding truth in things other than things. A pretty radical idea at the time and even more radical today. He was writer and said something one time that strikes me as life changing and extraordinary. Here is what he said:

"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared with what lies within us."

Think about your day today. Were you focused on the past...something that happened yesterday or that was said to you. Were you focused on the future...what your going to do tomorrow or even 20 years from now.

This old dead guy (wasn't dead when he said the quote) is challenging me and you to use our days to deepen our character and our souls.

Are you deeper now than you were when you woke up?

There's time left.

Quote of the Day- Robert Greenleaf

Good leaders must first become good servants.

- Robert Greenleaf

Great Video

So I love this video because I see a guy who saw his ordinary life and thought, what can I do to be extraordinary.

The power of one of influence many.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zlfKdbWwruY

The First Question

So the first question you need to ask is this? What around me needs improvement? What at my school, in my home, in my community, or on my teams needs improvement? Find one thing that really needs improvement, and make a commitment.

Will you comit to making it better? Not for you own gain or glory, but to see something get better?

This is the small beginning to an extraordinary life.